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Member Profile: Walk_together
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"being here just as we are"
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I am a:
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61-year-old Man (Divorced)
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Located in:
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Redlands, CA (USA) |
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Seeking a:
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Woman (45 to 65) |
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For:
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Friendship, Dating, Serious Relationship |
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Spirituality:
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Agnostic, Buddhist, Humanist, Yoga, Spiritual, not religious |
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| About Me
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I promise I'll write more here soon. But the brief version is summed up by my "headline": I desire to find one to walk the rest of the path together. We may not always be pretty, but we can continually grow in beauty. I'd like to stand beside someone who commits as much work to their inner being as we all seem to do for our physical beings. Intention, not perfection, matters. |
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Basics
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My Sign:
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Taurus |
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I speak:
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English |
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Occupation:
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Teacher |
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Education:
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PhD/Post Doctoral |
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Ethnicity:
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Caucasian |
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Height:
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5 11" (180 cm)
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Body Type:
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Average |
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Eye Color:
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Brown |
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Hair Color:
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Light Brown |
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Hair Length:
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Balding |
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Lifestyle
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I live with:
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Live alone |
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Have kids:
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Yes, sometimes living with me |
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Want (more) children:
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No |
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Willing To Relocate:
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Maybe
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Diet:
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A Little of Everything |
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Smoking:
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No |
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Drinking:
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Social Drinker |
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Exercise:
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exercise occasionally |
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Pets:
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Cat, Dog |
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How I spend my free time:
- Love to garden and explore
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| Personality
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My Personality:
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Strong, Intelligent, Funny
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I'm happiest when:
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When I’m adventuring with my daughter or when we’re reading before bed. But also…when I’ve been meditating consistently (especially after a retreat), when I’m at the ocean, after a good workout or good sleep, when I’m cooking for friends, when I am tending the garden.
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The things that annoy me are:
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The mindlessness of others, habitual selfishness, my own reactivity to things that annoy me
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The best day of my life was when:
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So many
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If I could have dinner with any three people, they would be:
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Pema, Lao Tzu, Robinson Jeffers
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Interests
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My interests, hobbies, and pastimes include...
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Board Games, Cooking, Gardening, Music (listening), Photography, Reading, Travel
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The physical activities I'm interested in are:
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Basketball, Camping, Golf, Walking, Yoga (hatha)
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For fun I like to...
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I’m pretty quiet and industrious. Love to garden, to hike, to sit with my toes in the sand, to go places just to see what’s there.
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My favorite music:
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Folky jazzy alty world musicy
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My favorite books:
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The Wise Heart
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Values
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The virtues I consider most important are...
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Kindness, Patience, Humility
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The things I'm most grateful for in life are...
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Things that take me out of myself, away from my ego
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My goals, and what I want out of life...
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To increase the frequency of feeling transcendent peace, to hold onto life until I understand what I was meant to know
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My greatest accomplishments in life have been...
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Accidents
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Five or ten years from now, I see myself...
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These questions don’t engage my best self
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My political inclination can be described as...
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Non-conformist
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Spirituality
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Spiritual Orientation:
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Agnostic, Buddhist, Humanist, Yoga, Spiritual, not religious
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I consider my spirituality...
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Pretty important to me
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What brought me to my spiritual path and motivated my interest...
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My repeated failure to find satisfaction without spiritual awareness
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I consider the purpose of my spirituality to be...
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Connecting to something greater than myself, Finding happiness and peace within, Helping me cope with the struggles of life, Helping me grow as a person
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After the body dies...
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Other
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I would define a spiritual experience as...
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Einstein called it “cosmic religion,” a direct experience with some reality bigger than we perceive.
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The spiritual books and authors that have had the greatest impact on me...
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Jack Kornfield, Pema Chodron, Gabor Maté, Susan Piver, Brene Brown
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Who I'm Looking For
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I'm seeking a:
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Woman (45 to 65)
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Ethnicity:
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Caucasian
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Height:
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5' 0" to 6' 6" (152cm to 198cm)
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Body Type:
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Slender, Athletic, Average
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Hair Color:
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Any
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She should speak:
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English
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Education:
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Bachelors Degree, Graduate Degree, PhD/Post Doctoral
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Annual Income:
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$50,001 to $75,000, $75,001 to $100,000, $100,001 to $150,000
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Smoking:
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Occasionally
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Drinking:
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Doesn't Matter
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Vegetarian:
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Doesn't Matter
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Has children:
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Doesn't Matter
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Wants children:
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Probably not, No
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Personality:
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Caring, Intelligent, Confident
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When out with friends, she would be...
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Doesn't Matter
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Spiritual Orientation:
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Agnostic, Buddhist, Humanist, Jewish, Taoist, Unitarian, Yoga, Spiritual, not religious
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She would consider her faith or spirituality...
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Pretty important
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