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I'm British, but living in NZ. I'm a single mum. And an avid snowboarder and hiker. And psychologist.
I seem to get on best with other Brits, but am open to all different nationalities. At this point i'm really just interested in having some online chats to other parts of myself who are following a similar path. Happy to meet if the vibe is right... :)
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Basics
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My Sign:
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Aquarius |
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I speak:
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English |
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Education:
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Graduate Degree |
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Ethnicity:
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Caucasian |
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Height:
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5 3" (160 cm)
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Body Type:
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Average |
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Eye Color:
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Blue |
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Hair Color:
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Light Brown |
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Hair Length:
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Shoulder |
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Lifestyle
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I live with:
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Live with kids |
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Have kids:
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Yes, sometimes living with me |
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Want (more) children:
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No |
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Willing To Relocate:
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No
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Smoking:
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No |
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Drinking:
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Social Drinker |
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Exercise:
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exercise regularly |
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Pets:
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Cat |
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How I spend my free time:
- I have 2 small people who consume copious amount of attention.
I meditate. Lots. And spend a lot of time reading various spiritual texts. Just trying to wake up really :)
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| Personality
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My Personality:
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Adventurous, Strong, Intelligent
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When out with friends, I'm usually:
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Trying to be a good listener
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What makes me laugh hardest:
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Monty Python. Peep show.
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I'm happiest when:
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Having a giant meditation session. Riding fresh tracks down a mountain. Hiking to a peak. Having intelligent conversation. Reading spiritual books.
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The things that annoy me are:
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A messy or dirty house.
People who say one thing and do another
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The best day of my life was when:
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I haven't had it yet :)
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If I could have dinner with any three people, they would be:
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Ramana Maharshi, Eckhart Tolle and Michael Singer. Luckily, 2 on the list are still going strong. So Eckhart and Michael - if you're reading this - Sunday at my place for a vegan roast? ;)
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Interests
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For fun I like to...
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I'm bizarrely starting to find that everything I do is fun...
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Values
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The virtues I consider most important are...
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Compassion, Kindness, Honesty
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The things I'm most grateful for in life are...
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The actual experience of life itself. How amazing is it?!
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My goals, and what I want out of life...
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I want to wake up. That's it really :)
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Five or ten years from now, I see myself...
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I will still be in this same house, working in the same role, doing the same activities, but awake. And hopefully with you there too...
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My political inclination can be described as...
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Some other viewpoint
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Spirituality
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Spiritual Orientation:
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Buddhist, Hindu, Taoist, Spiritual, not religious
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I consider my spirituality...
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The central focus of my life
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What brought me to my spiritual path and motivated my interest...
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I suffered a bad concussion from snowboarding in 2011 and began to meditate. When things got tough, I meditated more. In 2024 I made the clear and one-pointed goal to wake up a at all costs. It's been a progression I suppose.
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The spiritual books and authors that have had the greatest impact on me...
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Shunryu Suzuki - Zen mind, Beginners mind.
Michael Singer - The Surrender Experiment
Ramana Maharshi - Be as you are
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Who I'm Looking For
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I'm seeking a:
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Man (33 to 55)
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Ethnicity:
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Any
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Height:
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5' 8" to 6' 6" (173cm to 198cm)
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Body Type:
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Slender, Athletic, Average, A few extra pounds
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Hair Color:
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Any
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He should speak:
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English
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Education:
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Doesn't Matter
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Annual Income:
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Doesn't Matter
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Smoking:
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No
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Drinking:
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Doesn't Matter
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Vegetarian:
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Doesn't Matter
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Has children:
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Doesn't Matter
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Wants children:
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Probably not, No
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Personality:
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Doesn't Matter
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When out with friends, he would be...
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Doesn't Matter
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Spiritual Orientation:
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Buddhist, Hindu, Pagan/Wiccan, Shinto, Sufism, Taoist, Yoga, Spiritual, not religious
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He would consider his faith or spirituality...
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The central focus of his life, Very important, Pretty important
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