About Me
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Hello!
I'm a practicing Zen Buddhist, living in Uppsala in Sweden.
I started my Buddhist career back in 2015-16, when I went to a meditation center in my home town. Quite soon I moved to the organisation's main temple for full-time practice, where I stayed for 1.5 years. After that I moved to Uppsala where I live now for studies.
During my years of studies my practice slowly declined and then stopped, until this summer (2025) when I went to a retreat (sesshin), after which I now feel very passionate about it again.
Since it is so important to me, it can be difficult to relate to 'normal' poeple (e.g. on Tinder) on a deeper level. There's much more to it, but I don't want to write it all down here...
I believe that serious practicioners usually have two things: a personality predisposition (or karma, I guess you could say) and something that has been a great difficulty or sorrow for them in life, like the passing of a close relative. For me I think it has been an undiagnosed autism, which has made my life difficult in a way that was hard for me to see.
I'm a junior physician. After finishing my studies, I worked for two years in the north to receive my license after which I moved back here. And I have also studied Japanese, archaeology, and civil engineering... At the moment I'm trying to become a researcher. We will see how that goes. |
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Basics
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My Sign:
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Taurus |
I speak:
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Swedish |
Ethnicity:
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Asian, Caucasian |
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Height:
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5 7" (170 cm)
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Body Type:
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Slender |
Eye Color:
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Brown |
Hair Color:
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Dark Brown |
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Lifestyle
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I live with:
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Live alone |
Have kids:
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No |
Want (more) children:
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No |
Willing To Relocate:
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No
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Diet:
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Vegetarian |
Smoking:
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No |
Drinking:
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Social Drinker |
Exercise:
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exercise regularly |
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How I spend my free time:
- I've always been a reader, with books as my main friends as a child. This has changed for the last years though. Sometimes I also like to write, but not fiction. I don't have that kind of imagination :)
Starting a course in traditional dance (gammeldans) soon, looking forward to that.
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Personality
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My Personality:
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Introverted, Playful, Quiet
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When out with friends, I'm usually:
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The quiet one
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What makes me laugh hardest:
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Memes on Reddit
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I'm happiest when:
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I meet someone like-minded (happens rarely), I read a book by myself (often)
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The things that annoy me are:
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Unnecessary social hierarchy
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Interests
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My interests, hobbies, and pastimes include...
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Reading, Science
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The physical activities I'm interested in are:
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Gym/Weightlifting, Running
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My favorite books:
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Maybe The Master and Margarita. Past favorite authors include Ursula Le Guin (high school-early twenties) and Isaac Asimov (early-mid teens).
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Values
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The virtues I consider most important are...
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Honesty, Humility, Kindness
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The things I'm most grateful for in life are...
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Being born to good parents in a good society. Being able to pursue my passions. The work of my teachers.
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Spirituality
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Spiritual Orientation:
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Buddhist, Other
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I consider my spirituality...
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The central focus of my life
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After the body dies...
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Other
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Who I'm Looking For
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I'm seeking a:
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Woman (20 to 60)
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Ethnicity:
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Any
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Height:
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4' 6" to 8' 0" (137cm to 244cm)
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Body Type:
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Any
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Hair Color:
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Any
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She should speak:
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English
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Education:
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Doesn't Matter
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Annual Income:
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Doesn't Matter
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Smoking:
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Doesn't Matter
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Drinking:
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Doesn't Matter
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Vegetarian:
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Doesn't Matter
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Has children:
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No, Yes (living away from her)
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Wants children:
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Probably not
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Personality:
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Doesn't Matter
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When out with friends, she would be...
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Doesn't Matter
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Spiritual Orientation:
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Buddhist
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She would consider her faith or spirituality...
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The central focus of her life, Very important, Pretty important
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