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Member Profile: Beeber
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"Who I am and what I want"
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I am a:
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82-year-old Man (Single)
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Located in:
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Kapaa, HI (USA) |
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Seeking a:
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Woman (30 to 75) |
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For:
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Dating, Serious Relationship |
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Spirituality:
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Spiritual, not religious |
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| About Me
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Hi. I'm lucky to be alive, and plan to live for many years. I wake up happy every day. My present home is on Kauai, Hawaii, although I have lived many places. The foundation of my life is my constant spiritual intimacy with the Divine in the form of my beloved spiritual teacher, Adi Da Samraj. MY FUTURE PARTNER WILL HAVE HER OWN SPIRITUAL PATH. I WILL NOT ASK HER TO FOLLOW MINE.
I have written a book of stories about my spiritual teacher, now available on Amazon. The title is "First Become Human: Stories of Humor and Compassion." I spent 50 wonderful and difficult years with Adi Da. He helped me to mature, to "become human" really. He died in 2008, but I still feel him very present in my space, and I love him deeply.
The second foundation of my life is music. Music is a kind of meditation for me. I play piano and sing all sorts of songs, especially from Ray Charles, James Taylor, Bob Dylan and Bonnie Raitt. Also show tunes, spirituals, old standards and more. This is a passion for me. I stay fit with daily exercise - light weight-lifting, push-ups, chin-ups and long walks. My diet is mostly vegetarian. I am a health nut. I have some fancy degrees.. I was originally a teacher, then a business man, and now I am comfortably retired, and very busy.
The woman I want is healthy, very slender, no taller than 5'6". She is beautiful to my eyes. Our love is mutual. We are deeply grateful in finding one another, and plan a lifetime together. We naturally accept each other's shortcomings and quirks. She respects my spiritual practice, and I respect hers. She loves music. She likes me to outlast her on the dance floor and in the gym. In the bed room everything is allowed, accepted and appreciated. We love each other deeply.
The woman I expect to find is well founded in her own female nature, and sensitive to her need to deepen and grow in her feminine character. She wants a man who embraces her in protective love, a commitment to her welfare and safety, allowing her to blossom in her unique nature. I bring her the strength, energy and clarity that she would otherwise seek in a younger man.
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Basics
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My Sign:
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Leo |
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I speak:
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English, French |
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Occupation:
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Retired and busy |
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Education:
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Graduate Degree |
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Annual Income:
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$100,001 to $150,000 |
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Ethnicity:
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Caucasian |
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Height:
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5 6" (168 cm)
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Body Type:
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Athletic |
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Eye Color:
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Brown |
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Hair Color:
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Grey |
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Hair Length:
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Short |
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Lifestyle
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I live with:
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Live alone |
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Have kids:
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No |
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Want (more) children:
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No |
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Willing To Relocate:
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Maybe
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Diet:
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Health Food Nut |
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Smoking:
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No |
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Drinking:
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Social Drinker |
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Exercise:
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exercise regularly |
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How I spend my free time:
- PLaying piano and singing, walking and exercising, making contacts for publicity of my book, hanging out with friends, serious book study, listening to music, going out to dance
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| Personality
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My Personality:
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Outgoing, Intuitive, Caring
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When out with friends, I'm usually:
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The talkative one
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What makes me laugh hardest:
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Steve Martin, the ultimate jerk
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I'm happiest when:
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Either in depth of meditation, or depth of musical enjoyment, or sharing love with a friend
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The things that annoy me are:
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Annoy is not the word. With most people, I feel able to understand them better than theyo understand me. I seem to be moving towards those with whom the understanding is mutual, the match is vibrational. The woman I expect to find meets me there.
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The best day of my life was when:
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I met my spiritual teacher and loved him spontaneously. I knew that he was only an incarnation of the Divine. He was radiant with Divine light
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If I could have dinner with any three people, they would be:
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Steve Martin, the ultimate madman. At dinner we would have each other laughing to the point of tears.
John F Kennedy, the greatest inspiration of my iife among ordinary humans, a courageous political hero who took great risks to uphold the truth, who attracted the love of billions by his humor and generosity of heart. He knew his risks could cause his assassination, and lived the truth anyway.
Muhammed Ali, the second greatest human inspiration of my life, a master of self-discipline, a genius of human relationship who never took himself seriously, a hero of political courage, who gave the gift of his humor to billions..
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Interests
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My interests, hobbies, and pastimes include...
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Gardening, Music (listening), Music (performing), Politics, Reading, Writing
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The physical activities I'm interested in are:
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Dancing, Gym/Weightlifting, Hiking/Backpacking, Walking, Yoga (hatha)
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For fun I like to...
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Playing piano, singing, dancing, walking, visiting friends
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My favorite movies:
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East of Eden with James Dean and Julie Harris (both were brilliant)
The Taming of the Shrew with Eliz Taylor, Richard Burton (Shakespeare's psychological genius)
The Pink Panther movies
Love Actually
Lean on Me with Morgan Freeman
Dead Poets Society with Robin Williams
Anything with Steve Martin
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My favorite music:
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An endless list: Ray Charles, James Taylor, Bonnie Raitt, Voces 8, the King Singers, Home Free, the Beatles, Brad Mehldau, Sangha Noona, Hania Rani, Carla Ponty, Chris Stuart bluegrass, Bach, Handel, Morricone, Max Richter, many many more.
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My favorite books:
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All the many books by Adi Da Samraj, especially "Easy Death"
Many books by great spiritual masters of the past, like Ramana Maharshi
My own book, "First Become Human: Stories of Humor and Compassion", on Amazon now
"Profiles in Courage", by JFK
Supercommunicators, by Charles Duhig
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Values
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The virtues I consider most important are...
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Honesty, Empathy, Compassion
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The things I'm most grateful for in life are...
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My intimate psychic relationship with the Divine. Adi Da is my forever intimate.
Being born into a musical family
Having the financial resources to live as I wish
The love of dear friends, including my ex
Excellent health, with the energy and drive of a young man
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My goals, and what I want out of life...
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Continued human and spiritual growth
A lifelong intimacy with the right woman
Growth in musical sensitivity, increased piano skills, including jazz and boogie-woogie
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My greatest accomplishments in life have been...
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To see that my teacher is far greater than me.
To have actually loved a woman
Giving and receiving love with all others
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Five or ten years from now, I see myself...
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Hard to say. I will certainly be as vigorous as I am now.
My music will be much more developed and known to the public
My book will be well known and highly appreciated.
I will be known online for honest speech - all of this to serve my teacher's work.
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My political inclination can be described as...
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Liberal
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Spirituality
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Spiritual Orientation:
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Spiritual, not religious
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I consider my spirituality...
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The central focus of my life
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What brought me to my spiritual path and motivated my interest...
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The suffering of life, the failure to find fulfillment in life, the need for something greater, the inherent attraction to the Divine, the inspiration of many great teachers of the past
When I met Adi Da, I saw for the first time what true human integrity looks like. It is beyond description. I loved him immediately. I loved his humor, compassion and fierce intention. So I love the man, but mainly I have learned to love the Divine, by his example.
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I consider the purpose of my spirituality to be...
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Other
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After the body dies...
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The soul reincarnates until achieving Liberation
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I would define a spiritual experience as...
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Most spiritual experiences are misunderstood iilusions, imaginary enlightenment. What people generally call spiritual experience is only the activity of the higher nervous system, the subtle faculties of the mind. Traditionally such experiences suggest "Enlightenment". This is a misunderstanding.".
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A spiritual experience I would like to share...
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Yes. It's really a matter of psychic intuition rather than "spiritual" experience. I have come to the point that I am sensitive to my teacher's subtle presence whenever I give him my attention, and I regularly can "hear" his communications to me.
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The spiritual books and authors that have had the greatest impact on me...
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Stated above
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Who I'm Looking For
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I'm seeking a:
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Woman (30 to 75)
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Ethnicity:
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Any
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Height:
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5' 0" to 5' 6" (152cm to 168cm)
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Body Type:
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Slender, Athletic, Average
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Hair Color:
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Any
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She should speak:
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English
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Education:
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Doesn't Matter
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Annual Income:
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Doesn't Matter
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Smoking:
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No
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Drinking:
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Social Drinker
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Vegetarian:
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Doesn't Matter
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Has children:
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No, Yes (living away from her)
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Wants children:
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No
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Personality:
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Playful, Intuitive, Caring
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When out with friends, she would be...
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Doesn't Matter
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Spiritual Orientation:
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Any
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She would consider her faith or spirituality...
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Very important
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