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I am kind, curious, honest, loving, compassionate and I love to laugh.
Content in my own company, and also enjoy companionship. I am so grateful to have been born human, in a time and place of reasonable security and safety. I have loved the life I have lived until now, and have grown and become more than I ever could have wished for. I am less than perfect, and I am always cultivating wisdom and enlightenment.
I’ve been meditating for about 10 years and studying the Dharma at the Mid Essex Buddhist Centre since 2023. While I consider myself a Buddhist, it is still a fairly new path for me, I’m comfortable with my effort and progress, and with the wonderful support of my Sangha, I feel as though I am flourishing.
Practising ethics and wisdom in modern culture is fascinating, a challenge and important to me.
I am a walker and would love to find someone equally happy to get their boots muddy in nature.
I love the theatre and I have varied tastes, from stand up comedy to plays and opera. But have to admit I haven’t been for a year or so now, and I don’t much miss it.
I own a small retail business, I am fortunate enough to employ seven staff and I am grateful to have a healthy work life balance. My business also provides me with a home, so while it is sometimes tempting to relocate, that isn’t a sensible option for me, and I wouldn’t wish to build up a business again from scratch.
I live with my two children, 23 & 16, Who are fairly independent for their ages.
I’m very much a dog person, which is not for everyone.
I also have four mischievous ferrets, and I am fairly sure they have hidden my ear pods somewhere. (Update. They had. I found them under my bed, so I have now given them their own play room.)
I also keep some small fish as well as even smaller ant colonies as pets. Yes it is possible I’m not quite normal. 🤣😂🤣
I enjoy reading and study as well as listening to audio books. (Helps get the care tasks done.)
I’m eagerly awaiting the release of the latest Robert Galbraith novel, but there is no date set yet. 🫤
I’m currently reading Buddhism: Tools for Living your Life, by Vajragupta.
I’m; not a fan of Drama, sensitive to untrustworthiness and disrespect, uncomfortable with hatred or intolerance, and have to do a little work to maintain my confidence and self worth around certain types of people. |
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Basics
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My Sign:
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Aries |
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I speak:
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English |
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Ethnicity:
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Caucasian |
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Height:
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5 3" (160 cm)
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Body Type:
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A few extra pounds |
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Eye Color:
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Brown |
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Hair Color:
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Auburn/Red |
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Hair Length:
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Long |
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Lifestyle
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Have kids:
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Yes, living with me |
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Want (more) children:
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Probably not |
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Willing To Relocate:
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Maybe
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Spirituality
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Spiritual Orientation:
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Buddhist
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Who I'm Looking For
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I'm seeking a:
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Man (45 to 55)
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Ethnicity:
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Any
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Height:
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4' 6" to 6' 6" (137cm to 198cm)
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Body Type:
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Any
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Hair Color:
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Any
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He should speak:
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English
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Education:
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Doesn't Matter
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Annual Income:
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Doesn't Matter
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Smoking:
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Doesn't Matter
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Drinking:
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Doesn't Matter
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Vegetarian:
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Doesn't Matter
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Has children:
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Doesn't Matter
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Wants children:
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No
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Personality:
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Doesn't Matter
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When out with friends, he would be...
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Doesn't Matter
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Spiritual Orientation:
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Buddhist
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He would consider his faith or spirituality...
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Doesn't Matter
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