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Hello. I thoroughly enjoy life. Not a goal setter. I believe in meeting what comes to me. I’m not sure it’s a good idea to be seeking a friendship/relationship in this way, but my sister encouraged me, so I see this as meeting life as it comes:) It would be nice to meet a kindred spirit, as they say. I have been studying and doing my best to practice Zen Buddhism for 30 years. I sit daily. I envision meeting someone with a Buddhist or Taoist… Unitarian way of looking at (and living) this life. I’m very active… outside as much as I can be. I get my own firewood in from log-length and take care of all that needs to be done on my 16 acres up here in the mountains. I love to hike, paddle and ride my motorcycles. I’m an introvert. I love people. I am probably the most optimistic person you know. Maybe we all live the fullest and most true life possible. |
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Basics
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My Sign:
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Pisces |
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I speak:
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English |
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Education:
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Graduate Degree |
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Height:
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5 4" (163 cm)
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Body Type:
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Slender |
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Eye Color:
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Brown |
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Hair Color:
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Dark Brown |
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Lifestyle
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I live with:
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Live alone |
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Have kids:
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No |
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Want (more) children:
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Probably not |
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Willing To Relocate:
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Maybe
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Diet:
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Health Food Nut, A Little of Everything |
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Smoking:
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No |
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Drinking:
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Social Drinker |
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| Personality
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My Personality:
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Adventurous, Creative, Introverted
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If I could have dinner with any three people, they would be:
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Ivan Turgenev, Virginia Wolf or George Elliot or Charlotte BrontëErnest Hemingway or John Steinbeck. These people see quietly and deeply into humanity, generously exposing our ignorant, intense and tenderhearted natures.Their points of view have expanded my consciousness.
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Interests
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My interests, hobbies, and pastimes include...
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Cars/Motorcycles, Museums, Music (listening), Reading
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The physical activities I'm interested in are:
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Camping, Hiking/Backpacking
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For fun I like to...
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Walking in cities and places I’ve not visited, hiking, paddling, motorcycle riding on the dirt and on the street, reading and working outside.
I love good coffee, French wine, good healthy food, and delicious food that’s bad for me. I laugh easily. I love good indie movies. I tend to like movies that have mixed reviews… often they are interesting and difficult! I love contemporary art. MassMoCA is one of my happy places. I read The New York Times regularly and look into WSJ. I like the Sunday crosswords. I love working and playing outside.
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My favorite music:
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I love all kinds of music. Currently listening to geese, Craig Taborn, Carolyn Polachek, revisiting Steely Dan, revisiting the Brothers Osborne, then letting my Qobuz subscription carry me from there
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My favorite books:
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Cutting Through Spiritual Materialism. Chuang Tzu (David Hinton translation) i’m a reader. Turgenev, Chekhov, Hemingway, Steinbeck, Toni Morrison, Ishiguro, Cormac McCarthy, Alice Munro, Dostoyevsky and many more.
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Values
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The virtues I consider most important are...
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Open-Mindedness, Kindness, Empathy
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The things I'm most grateful for in life are...
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Marshy lowlands, rocky mountaintops, long mountain valleys, dead trees, splitting wood by hand, people who don’t feel the need to judge anything. Mu gentle and kind sister, the rush of riding twisty secondary roads. Quiet early morning paddles on smallish, lakes, and ponds. River paddling. Being outside in all kinds of weather. Intelligent and funnypeople.
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My political inclination can be described as...
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Middle of the road
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Spirituality
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Spiritual Orientation:
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Buddhist
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I consider my spirituality...
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The central focus of my life
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After the body dies...
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I don't know, but I'm not worried about it
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A spiritual experience I would like to share...
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Juncos and finches graze wet spring seeds
Heads up! Away!
Frogs arrived last night in the new pond
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The spiritual books and authors that have had the greatest impact on me...
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Many
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Who I'm Looking For
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I'm seeking a:
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Man (43 to 73)
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Ethnicity:
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Any
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Height:
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4' 6" to 6' 6" (137cm to 198cm)
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Body Type:
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Any
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Hair Color:
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Any
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He should speak:
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English
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Education:
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Doesn't Matter
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Annual Income:
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Doesn't Matter
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Smoking:
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Doesn't Matter
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Drinking:
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Doesn't Matter
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Vegetarian:
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Doesn't Matter
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Has children:
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Doesn't Matter
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Wants children:
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Doesn't Matter
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Personality:
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Adventurous, Funny, Intelligent
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When out with friends, he would be...
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Doesn't Matter
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Spiritual Orientation:
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Buddhist, Taoist, Unitarian
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He would consider his faith or spirituality...
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Doesn't Matter
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