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Member Profile: junpo
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"being...present and aware"
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I am a:
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68-year-old Woman (Divorced)
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Located in:
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asheville, NC (USA) |
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Seeking a:
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Man (60 to 75) |
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For:
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Friendship, Serious Relationship, Marriage |
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Spirituality:
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Buddhist, Spiritual, not religious, Other |
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| About Me
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...i believe in magic and chemistry (the natural kind please...i'm sensitive to scented soaps and products) when it's also infused with the logic of compatibility. i value compassion and genuineness most of all with honesty, integrity, knowing and loving oneself... healthy relationships. beauty and joy are very important in my life. i'd like to meet the man who shares these values, meditates regularly, and is open to a genuine connection. carl jung says "the meeting of two personalities is like the contact of two chemical substances, if there is any reaction, both are transformed". my idea of the most comfortable meeting is in nature, involves serendipity and allows for enough mystery to establish whether there is a natural attraction (i.e. "reaction") or a genuine friendship. can we start with a mutual smile and tune in our awareness to let the universe take it from there? i'd like for my partner to be the man who is most compatible and compassionate... walks lightly and laughs easily...loves living in asheville...is at least 2 years beyond the divorce...values the magic and the logic and knows when it's real. he should be ready to appreciate having an equal cohort in the enjoyment of life in service to love. for me right now that looks like sharing experiences and wisdom in deep conversations, learning about ourselves as well as each other and growing and changing ("the only constant is change") with open minds and appreciation that allows whatever comes into life as being "just what we need, just when we need it"... walking daily together and hiking for beauty and enjoyment...sharing healthy organic vegetarian meals, gardening and landscaping and a beautiful ecological/sustainable home with our own art collections. a balance between time for ourselves with individual interests and shared interests with lots of playful puppy time. please practice the "guidelines for an environmentally friendly gathering" and appreciate organic food. thanks for the opportunity!
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Basics
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My Sign:
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Taurus |
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I speak:
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English |
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Occupation:
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professional |
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Education:
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Bachelors Degree |
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Ethnicity:
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Native American, Caucasian, Middle Eastern |
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Height:
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5 5" (165 cm)
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Body Type:
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Slender |
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Eye Color:
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Green |
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Hair Color:
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Dark Brown |
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Hair Length:
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Shoulder |
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Lifestyle
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I live with:
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Live with pets |
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Have kids:
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No |
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Want (more) children:
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No |
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Willing To Relocate:
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No
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Diet:
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Vegetarian, Health Food Nut |
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Smoking:
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No |
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Drinking:
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No |
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Exercise:
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exercise occasionally |
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Pets:
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Dog |
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How I spend my free time:
- creatively...in nature...hiking, walking, playing with my dog, dancing or movement art,
making jewelry with natural stones and simple beauty to share with others,
writing songs and singing spontaneously (sometimes with my dog :),
drumming and/or playing native flute,
practices of solitude and silence in many forms,
kayaking (sit on top) on the lake or class II rivers
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| Personality
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My Personality:
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Caring, Creative, Intelligent
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When out with friends, I'm usually:
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The quiet one
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What makes me laugh hardest:
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mostly just playing�no tv for many years but love alf tales�movies = ben stiller, sandra bullock
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I'm happiest when:
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sharing fun w/ friends, writing songs, cooking, creating art in many forms�out in nature�co-creating!
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The things that annoy me are:
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optional mostly... but small talk, wasting time on trivia, shopping, disingenuous interactions with people, background tv or radio noise, smelling someones products within any range closer than inches away because they can trigger asthma or migraines in other people, every hair in place or really hair conscious do's and "look at me" actions
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The best day of my life was when:
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we're all just present now...
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If I could have dinner with any three people, they would be:
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a kind loving gentleman sharing life's journey with me
carl jung---he's brilliant and i have lots of questions for him
hildegard von bingen---she's also brilliant and i'd love to sing with her as well as create recipes
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Interests
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My interests, hobbies, and pastimes include...
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Board Games, Cooking, Crafts, Gardening, Music (performing), Painting & Drawing, Reading, Writing
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The physical activities I'm interested in are:
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Dancing, Hiking/Backpacking, Swimming, Walking, Yoga (hatha)
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For fun I like to...
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play�create recipes and cook, look around for hidden beauty and lightness of being�it's easy to find fun in everything i do even if it's mostly just the next right thing...
I share lots of videos on my YouTube channel and can send you a link to the most recent.
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My favorite movies:
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chocolat...when harry met sally�dances with wolves�the notebook�the proposal, the matrix
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My favorite music:
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wahlela and rita coolidge and soulfood...lots of world music...tango, blues, jazz...i can enjoy it all�traditional native songs are my favorite to hear and sing
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My favorite books:
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robert j conley's real people series and dogen's writing on soto zen...anything jungian or funny
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Values
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The virtues I consider most important are...
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Compassion, Honesty, Open-Mindedness
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The things I'm most grateful for in life are...
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health friends family my home my dog inspiration and compassion, freedom to practice in my own spiritual ways with like minded friends who are supportive and open to sharing life completely with the focus on our common evolution �especially for being able to do ancestral native ceremonies at my home with close friends and walking each day in the moment with allowing and acceptance supported by soto zen teachings as well as life experiences
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My goals, and what I want out of life...
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health and happiness and secure love�my goals involve allowing experiences and growth to bring my spirit to the evolution it needs so we all may evolve in our own ways together�helping each other for the good of all humankind as well as the earth, air and water. i long to be in partnership and community with like minded people who walk in this way everyday.
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My greatest accomplishments in life have been...
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soto zen vows...native ceremonies...home...health�friends and being 10+ years into the following in my daily walk: simple living by building my own home debt-free, grass-free in the woods with small footprint, going 7 miles into town only infrequently, retired, buying only organic food and clothing necessities, using no personal products with petrochemicals (baking soda & vinegar instead), truly putting spirituality first in my life with a daily walk well chosen, training as a Jungian Depth Psychology Specialist
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Five or ten years from now, I see myself...
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settled in�present and appreciating a kind loving partnership as well as the inner work necessary to create a constant state of love. i'm already 10 years beyond running around in social circles trying to prove popularity and attention seeking behaviors so really hoping to find a partner who values the same and already walks in this way. have worked with jungian depth perspective for inner growth and understanding for 35+ years and hoping to share this experience and dream work also with deep love
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My political inclination can be described as...
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Some other viewpoint
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Spirituality
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Spiritual Orientation:
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Buddhist, Spiritual, not religious, Other
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I consider my spirituality...
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The central focus of my life
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What brought me to my spiritual path and motivated my interest...
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experience and ancestry...
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I consider the purpose of my spirituality to be...
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Connecting to something greater than myself, Finding happiness and peace within, Helping me cope with the struggles of life, Instilling morality and virtues, Belonging to a like-minded community, Helping me grow as a person
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After the body dies...
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The soul persists in a spiritual realm
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I would define a spiritual experience as...
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anything connected with everything
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A spiritual experience I would like to share...
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many that i'd love to share with someone special...
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The spiritual books and authors that have had the greatest impact on me...
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dogen...maya tiwari...jung...raven hail
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Who I'm Looking For
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I'm seeking a:
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Man (60 to 75)
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Ethnicity:
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Any
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Height:
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5' 6" to 6' 2" (168cm to 188cm)
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Body Type:
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Slender, Athletic, Average
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Hair Color:
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Any
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He should speak:
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English
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Education:
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Doesn't Matter
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Annual Income:
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Doesn't Matter
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Smoking:
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No
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Drinking:
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No, Social Drinker, Non-alcoholic beverages only
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Vegetarian:
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Yes
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Has children:
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No, Yes (living away from him)
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Wants children:
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Probably not
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Personality:
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Caring, Intelligent, Playful
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When out with friends, he would be...
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Doesn't Matter
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Spiritual Orientation:
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Agnostic, Buddhist, Taoist, Yoga, Spiritual, not religious, Other
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He would consider his faith or spirituality...
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The central focus of his life, Very important
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