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Member Profile: dilhindustani
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"Be still its the wind that sings"
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I am a:
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45-year-old Man (Single)
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Located in:
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chandigarh, Chandigarh (India) |
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Seeking a:
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Woman (26 to 40) |
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For:
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Friendship, Dating, Serious Relationship, Marriage |
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Spirituality:
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Hindu, Yoga, Spiritual, not religious, SRF/YSS |
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| About Me
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I am a boy next door, with average looks. A very religious Hindu by birth but have been a hardcore atheist by choice for most part of life, which has changed just 3 years ago . However, the journey to self-realization is a life long one. And one such way is to worshhip your woman partner as a symbol of shakti or nature.
Hobbies:
When free,love listening to music . watch cricket ,play chess or just enjoy my moments of soltitude and the the ever melodious song of silence.
Please read below 2 requests before proceeding:
1. Will prefer a court marriage without any religious ritual and materialistic event.
2. Don't believe in marriage stereotypes and a specific role for wife and husband and at the moment not too keen on having children, which has to be mutually agreed or decided .
Looking for: I have no set criteria. But ideally i will prefer her to be
from 26 to 40
working and self efficient
More spiritual than into religious rituals
Believing in in simple living and high thinking
should have her own goals in life
One who values silence over gossiping.
more athletic than into jewellery
Won't force me to take part in any religious rituals
Rest we all are different individuals and have our own personality. I am sure that I won't satisfy all criteria set by her, so it will be fine if she is just herself and we don't try to change each other, rather find bliss in the differences. |
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Basics
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My Sign:
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Taurus |
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I speak:
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Punjabi, Hindi, English, Urdu |
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Occupation:
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Manager-Network Services |
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Education:
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Bachelors Degree |
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Annual Income:
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Less than $25,000 |
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Ethnicity:
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South Asian |
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Height:
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5 9" (175 cm)
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Body Type:
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Average |
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Eye Color:
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Black |
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Hair Color:
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Black |
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Hair Length:
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Short |
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Lifestyle
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I live with:
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Live with parents |
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Have kids:
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No |
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Want (more) children:
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I'm not sure |
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Willing To Relocate:
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Maybe
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Diet:
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Vegetarian |
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Smoking:
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No |
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Drinking:
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No |
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Exercise:
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exercise occasionally |
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How I spend my free time:
- Day starts with and night ends with morning meditation and thinking and meditating on wisdom of Swami Sivananda and Ramana Maharishi .
if it's winter then love to read ,sitting in sunshine or in my room. Rest I love listening to music, watch cricket and play chess .
Though most movies are silly, still like to watch when for a change a good romcom or horror movie hits the tele.
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| Personality
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My Personality:
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Quiet, Funny, Rebellious
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When out with friends, I'm usually:
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The quiet one
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What makes me laugh hardest:
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Any chaplin movie.. but in reality they also make one think
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I'm happiest when:
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Am alone and communicating with my higher Self
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The things that annoy me are:
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Noise, materalism, hypocricy, violence
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The best day of my life was when:
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I stopped being an atheist
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If I could have dinner with any three people, they would be:
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Mahatma Gandhi :In my opinion the greatest individual that ever walked on earth. His whole life was a journey to truth. He is my ideal and one i always look up to.I do hope that the day we select for dinner isn't the day when the Mahatma is fasting :).
Ramana Maharishi : Just to be in his divine presence where silence answers all your questions
Can't think of any other non mythological person besides these two. But from mythology it will be Krishna, so he can explain the wisdom of Gita in his own words
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Interests
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My interests, hobbies, and pastimes include...
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Board Games, Gardening, Movies, Music (listening), Politics, Reading, Television, Travel, Writing
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The physical activities I'm interested in are:
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Tennis, Walking, Yoga (hatha)
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My favorite movies:
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Among Indian movies:
Anand
Mera Naam Joker
Pyaasa
Among English ones:
Godfather
Titanic
Avatar
Any Jim Carrey flick
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My favorite music:
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sufi and punjabi folk, old hindi gems of 50's and 60's.
Hardly have liked any song post 1980
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My favorite books:
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My experiments with truth : M K Gandhi
Autobiography of a Yogi : PArmahansa Yogananda
Mind: It's mysteries and control :Sivananda
Yoga Vasishtha : Valmiki by Swami Venkatesananda
Devikalottara : Collected works of Ramana Maharishi
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Values
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The virtues I consider most important are...
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Self-Control, Honesty, Open-Mindedness
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The things I'm most grateful for in life are...
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For life giving me another chance to explore my inner self
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My goals, and what I want out of life...
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To realize the self and know that 'Who am I'
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My greatest accomplishments in life have been...
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Pride is one of biggest barriers
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Five or ten years from now, I see myself...
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More with my higher self and less with my past tendancies and restless habbits
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My political inclination can be described as...
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Some other viewpoint
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Spirituality
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Spiritual Orientation:
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Hindu, Yoga, Spiritual, not religious, SRF/YSS
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I consider my spirituality...
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The central focus of my life
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What brought me to my spiritual path and motivated my interest...
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Well I have been an atheist for most part of my life, due to all violence and hypocricy that goes around the world in name of religion.
It was actually a western friend who recommended me to read 'Autobiography of a Yogi' and life hasn't been same since February 2008
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I consider the purpose of my spirituality to be...
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Connecting to something greater than myself, Finding happiness and peace within, Helping me cope with the struggles of life, Instilling morality and virtues
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After the body dies...
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I don't know, but I'm not worried about it
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I would define a spiritual experience as...
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When there is no fluctuation of mind, no holy scriptures or sacred books, no one who thinks, no objection or answer to it,no theory to be establishd, no theory to be rejected, nothing other than one Self- and one is always happy, from the least trace of thought.
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A spiritual experience I would like to share...
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Still fighting with my restless tendancies to go that far.
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The spiritual books and authors that have had the greatest impact on me...
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Mahatma Gandhi
Sage Valmiki
Swami Sivananda
Ramanna Maharishi
Vivekananda
Parmahansa Yogananda
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Who I'm Looking For
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I'm seeking a:
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Woman (26 to 40)
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Ethnicity:
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Any
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Height:
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5' 0" to 6' 6" (152cm to 198cm)
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Body Type:
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Any
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Hair Color:
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Any
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She should speak:
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English, Hindi, English
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Education:
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Doesn't Matter
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Annual Income:
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Doesn't Matter
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Smoking:
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No
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Drinking:
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Doesn't Matter
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Vegetarian:
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Doesn't Matter
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Has children:
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Doesn't Matter
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Wants children:
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Doesn't Matter
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Personality:
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Strong, Adventurous, Intuitive
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When out with friends, she would be...
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Trying to be a good listener
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Spiritual Orientation:
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Any
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She would consider her faith or spirituality...
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The central focus of her life, Very important, Pretty important
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