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Member Profile: SilentRain
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"Living simply makes loving simple"
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I am a:
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69-year-old Woman (Divorced)
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Located in:
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Orinda, CA (USA) |
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Seeking a:
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Man (53 to 65) |
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For:
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Friendship, Serious Relationship |
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Spirituality:
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Buddhist, Humanist, Yoga, Spiritual, not religious |
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| About Me
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I am looking for a "perfect" match. He would not be my whole life but he would make my life whole. He is not perfect yet special to me. A perfect match would be a combination of chemistry and the understanding of each other’s needs and differences.
I'm healthy, energetic, financially stable, comfortable in solitude, but would love to have someone special to enjoy life with.
I'm an unpretentious and down to earth woman. My life-choices have rewarded me with an uncomplicated existence. I do love my independence but there are so many good things in life that could be even better shared, I'm seeking a very special friend and companion with whom I might find a balance.
I am soft-spoken, even-tempered, perceptive and introspective I'm also youthful, humorous (dry), romantic, spontaneous, patient, optimistic, mischievous, and playful. I'm fitness and nutrition conscious. I take care of my body but not to an obsession.
Hiking, swimming, Yoga and meditation are high on my list of regular activities. I love nature and all outdoor activities including skiing, hiking, swimming, biking, canoeing and kayaking.... It is in nature that I feel most spiritual and at peace. I like to read philosophy and have a moderate interest in poetry. I also enjoy museums, live music (Jazz, Blues, and Classical), theater, quality TV, and public radio. I have traveled extensively in the past for business but would like to travel more for leisure in the future. I like to cook and don't mind when others do it, too. I like to eat out. I like to stay in. I know I am devoted, committed, loyal and loving if he is worthy. In the same token, I would not ask but earn your devotion, commitment, loyalty and love in return.
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Basics
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My Sign:
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Sagittarius |
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I speak:
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English |
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Occupation:
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Self employed, semi-retired |
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Education:
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Bachelors Degree |
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Ethnicity:
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Asian |
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Height:
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5 3" (160 cm)
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Body Type:
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Slender |
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Eye Color:
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Brown |
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Hair Color:
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Dark Brown |
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Hair Length:
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Shoulder |
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Lifestyle
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I live with:
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Live with pets |
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Have kids:
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Yes, living away from me |
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Want (more) children:
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No |
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Willing To Relocate:
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Maybe
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Diet:
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Vegetarian, Health Food Nut, A Little of Everything |
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Smoking:
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No |
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Drinking:
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Social Drinker |
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Exercise:
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exercise regularly |
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Pets:
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Dog |
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| Personality
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My Personality:
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Intuitive, Caring, Confident
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When out with friends, I'm usually:
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Trying to be a good listener
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I'm happiest when:
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My mind is clean and calm during and after an intensive meditation retreat and when I come across things that tickle my soul such as fresh lavender, home grown tomatoes, ocean waves, sand between my toes, sunset, sunrise, running rivers, still forest ponds, Rumi, Mary Oliver, e. e. cummings...
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Interests
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My interests, hobbies, and pastimes include...
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Cooking, Eating Out, Gardening, Movies, Museums, Music (listening), Photography, Reading, Theater, Travel
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The physical activities I'm interested in are:
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Biking, Camping, Dancing, Gym/Weightlifting, Hiking/Backpacking, Swimming, Tennis, Walking, Yoga (hatha)
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For fun I like to...
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See above.
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My favorite music:
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Jazz, classical, light rock, latin
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My favorite books:
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Many. Especially ones that are related to Insight/Vipassana meditation and Buddhist philosophy.
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Values
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The virtues I consider most important are...
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Compassion, Honesty, Loyalty
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The things I'm most grateful for in life are...
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Life itself
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My goals, and what I want out of life...
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Being well, happy and peaceful so I can help others beings be well, happy and peaceful.
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My greatest accomplishments in life have been...
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rasing two wonderful children.
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Five or ten years from now, I see myself...
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I'll be happy to share this with you if and when I meet you...or to be more precise when I get to know you better.
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Spirituality
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Spiritual Orientation:
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Buddhist, Humanist, Yoga, Spiritual, not religious
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I consider my spirituality...
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Very important to me
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What brought me to my spiritual path and motivated my interest...
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I am a spiritual person on a humanity journey.
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I consider the purpose of my spirituality to be...
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Finding happiness and peace within, Instilling morality and virtues
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After the body dies...
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I don't know, but I'm not worried about it
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A spiritual experience I would like to share...
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Yes but not now, not here.
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The spiritual books and authors that have had the greatest impact on me...
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Heart sutra. Satipathana Sutra.
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Who I'm Looking For
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I'm seeking a:
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Man (53 to 65)
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Ethnicity:
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Caucasian
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Height:
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5' 6" to 6' 6" (168cm to 198cm)
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Body Type:
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Slender, Athletic, Average
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Hair Color:
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Any
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He should speak:
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English
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Education:
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Bachelors Degree, Graduate Degree, PhD/Post Doctoral, School of Life
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Annual Income:
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$50,001 to $75,000, $75,001 to $100,000, $100,001 to $150,000, $150,001+
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Smoking:
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No
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Drinking:
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Social Drinker
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Vegetarian:
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Doesn't Matter
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Has children:
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No, Yes (living away from him), Yes (sometimes living with him)
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Wants children:
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No
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Personality:
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Intelligent, Confident, Caring
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When out with friends, he would be...
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The talkative one, The quiet one, Trying to be a good listener
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Spiritual Orientation:
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Buddhist, Christian, Humanist, Jewish, Yoga, Spiritual, not religious
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He would consider his faith or spirituality...
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Pretty important
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