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Member Profile: DharmaBum1960
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"Musician looking for musician or music fan"
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I am a:
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65-year-old Man (Divorced)
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Located in:
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Solana Beach, CA (USA) |
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Seeking a:
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Woman (43 to 59) |
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For:
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Dating, Serious Relationship, Marriage |
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Spirituality:
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Buddhist, Jewish |
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| About Me
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In San Diego sinceFall 2019...
I'm a single guy (divorced a long time ago), live near Boston. I have no kids. Right now I prefer to meet women who don't have cats and aren't hoping to get a cat.
I'm in very good shape, and am looking for someone who also stays in shape. Other physical stuff: 5'9", 160 lbs, blue/green eyes, and still have most of my hair (no bald spots).
For those of you who care about astrology (I don't!), I'm an Aries -- despite what is shown here as my birthday.
Also, I'm not at all into short hair on women.
If you are an ex-hippie or ex-Deadhead (or still are either one I suppose) we might get along well...
VERY IMPORTANT! I'm not seeking a pen pal, and I don't like to email forever. If you are paranoid about talking on the phone or meeting in person, please don't contact me! For me it has NEVER worked out when someone emailed me 20 times or wouldn't talk on the phone before meeting.
Also, I'm hoping/planning to relocate or spend several months a year to a sunnier place, either Hawaii or somewhere in the Caribbean. This will happen before the year 2020... possibly much sooner. So if those places are NOT on your list of locations where you want to be, we are probably not going to work out long-term.
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Basics
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My Sign:
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Capricorn |
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I speak:
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English |
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Occupation:
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Software engineer |
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Education:
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Graduate Degree |
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Annual Income:
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$150,001+ |
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Ethnicity:
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Caucasian |
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Height:
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5 9" (175 cm)
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Body Type:
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Athletic |
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Eye Color:
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Blue |
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Hair Color:
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Light Brown |
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Hair Length:
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Long |
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Lifestyle
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I live with:
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Live alone |
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Have kids:
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No |
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Want (more) children:
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No |
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Willing To Relocate:
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No
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Diet:
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Health Food Nut, A Little of Everything |
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Smoking:
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No |
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Drinking:
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Social Drinker |
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Exercise:
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exercise regularly |
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How I spend my free time:
- Beach, hiking, walking, running, museums, festivals, kayaking, weekend trips.
Since I'm at a computer a lot for work, I really like getting outside when I can: beach, kayaking, festivals, hiking and the beach. I know lots of people say they like the beach, but I REALLY love it and try to get at least one beach vacation in every year.
I'm a light mj user and a very light drinker.
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| Personality
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My Personality:
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Intelligent, Funny, Caring
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When out with friends, I'm usually:
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Trying to be a good listener
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What makes me laugh hardest:
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Wait Wait (NPR), Jon Stewart, David Letterman, Flight of the Conchords, Futurama, Craig Ferguson
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I'm happiest when:
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At the beach or drinking iced coffee or eating chocolate or ice cream... or of course being with that special person to share those things!
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The things that annoy me are:
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Disrespectful people, people who talk too much and don't realize it. Libertarians and conservative Republicans. People who think owning guns is more important than keeping people safe from guns etc.
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The best day of my life was when:
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While in music school (songwriting class), I was invited by a group of classmates to join a new band as the lead guitarist.
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If I could have dinner with any three people, they would be:
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Gandhi -- inspiration
Kerouac -- fun
Jefferson -- knowledge, wisdom
Garcia or Hendrix -- musical genius
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Interests
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My interests, hobbies, and pastimes include...
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Board Games, Computers, Eating Out, Genealogy, History, Movies, Museums, Music (listening), Music (performing), Politics, Reading, Science, Theater, Writing
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The physical activities I'm interested in are:
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Biking, Billiards/Pool, Gym/Weightlifting, Hiking/Backpacking, Running, Swimming, Tennis, Walking, Yoga (hatha)
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For fun I like to...
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Hey didn't I already answer this?
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My favorite movies:
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Groundhog Day, Raiders of the Lost Ark, James Bond series
Geeky movies:
Star Wars, Blade Runner
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My favorite music:
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Lately I like Americana a lot: Wilco, Calexico, Gillian Welch, Neko Case
Morphine
Neil Young, Tom Petty, Radiohead, The Smiths, Grateful Dead, Bob Marley
Miles Davis, John Coltrane
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My favorite books:
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"On The Road" and "Dharma Bums" by Kerouac
"High Fidelity", by Nick Hornby
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Values
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The virtues I consider most important are...
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Honesty, Kindness, Humility
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The things I'm most grateful for in life are...
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Health, family, brains
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My goals, and what I want out of life...
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Find a life partner, explore the world, make music, save the world
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My greatest accomplishments in life have been...
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Creating music, helping non-profits, eliminating nuclear warheads (really)
...more later!
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Five or ten years from now, I see myself...
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In an exotic location creating a music album, or maybe writing a book or teaching/helping people with technology.
I really want to run my house 100% on renewable energy, preferably solar.
I do NOT wish to live "off the grid" in a rural area nor as a survivalist -- just want to get off fossil fuels as much as possible.
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My political inclination can be described as...
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Very liberal
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Spirituality
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Spiritual Orientation:
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Buddhist, Jewish
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I consider my spirituality...
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Not that important to me
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What brought me to my spiritual path and motivated my interest...
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Was brought up Jewish, religious family. Then became more of a secular Jew/atheist. So you could call me a JewBu, though not remotely as active as Allen Ginsburg, that famous JewBu.
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I consider the purpose of my spirituality to be...
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Finding happiness and peace within, Helping me cope with the struggles of life, Instilling morality and virtues, Belonging to a like-minded community, Helping me grow as a person
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After the body dies...
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I don't know, but I'm not worried about it
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I would define a spiritual experience as...
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Connecting with nature or a special person
Playing music
Or eating a really great dessert
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A spiritual experience I would like to share...
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Oops, I already ate all the chocolate ice cream!
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The spiritual books and authors that have had the greatest impact on me...
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The Book: On the Taboo Against Knowing Who You Are, by Alan Watts
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Who I'm Looking For
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I'm seeking a:
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Woman (43 to 59)
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Ethnicity:
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Any
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Height:
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4' 11" to 5' 8" (150cm to 173cm)
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Body Type:
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Slender, Athletic, Average, Curvy
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Hair Color:
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Black, Blonde, Dark Blonde, Light Brown, Dark Brown, Auburn/Red, Grey
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She should speak:
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English
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Education:
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Associates Degree, Bachelors Degree, Graduate Degree, PhD/Post Doctoral
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Annual Income:
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Doesn't Matter
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Smoking:
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No, Occasionally, Trying to quit
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Drinking:
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Doesn't Matter
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Vegetarian:
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Doesn't Matter
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Has children:
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Doesn't Matter
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Wants children:
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Not sure, Probably not, No
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Personality:
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Outgoing, Intelligent, Creative
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When out with friends, she would be...
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The talkative one, Trying to be a good listener
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Spiritual Orientation:
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Agnostic, Buddhist, Humanist, Jewish, Unitarian, Yoga, Spiritual, not religious, Other
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She would consider her faith or spirituality...
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Very important, Pretty important, Not that important
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